"I understand. Having to hold back is not conducive to sparring. I pretty much skip the gyms here." Well, save when he went for friends.

"That sounds lovely." with the water finished heating, he sets a new pot to steeping, and this one brings hints of chocolate and orange, to the air.

"I think I would enjoy spending such an evening with you." He could record some of the music on a device and bring it with them.